Road Trip Saturday, Private Time Sunday

I had my husband go on a road trip today.  I needed to get him out of the funk he was in.  His personality usually takes over the house.  When he gets home from work, the animals light up and our child starts acting like a wired caffeine freak.  I'm not sure how he does it.  It is probably related to the enthusiasm that he brings to everything.  With him being so very down because of work, the same negative vibe overwhelmed the house.  He had a stomach ache which I felt as did our child.  I knew I had to get him out of this place.  It took literally the whole day to break his deep funk.  I personally struggled with this down energy but know that I am the tougher of the two of us.  By the end of the day, he was back closer to his old self.

Sunday our child goes to a friend's house for 24 hours.  I think that we will have some quality time together and distract each other seriously from the daily dilemmas.  I have a number of tricks up my sleeve.  Rather than state them here, I will post after we do them tomorrow.  I'll get pictures as well as everyone seems to like that.  If you have a favorite that you want, post it here and I will try and take it.

6th Night?

Yesterday was a hard one on my husband.  You can read about it on his side.  It meant that we did not do a 6th night in a row but sometimes life gets in the way of a good time.

Someone asked me to say more about how I feel when I am teasing him.  The short answer is that it turns me on.  I love the feeling of control over him.  I like the squirming that he does.  It is a real turn-on to me.  

5th Night in a Row - Perfect Ruined Orgasm

Last night was the 5th night in a row of teasing on my husband.  As you will see from the pictures here, I believe that I am perfecting the ruined orgasm. 

As I teased him, he kept getting closer and closer to orgasm with each tease.  He then had the smallest drop of clear fluid on his penis.  I told him that was it.  He looked at me and asked politely if I would give him a ruined orgasm.  I then proceeded to tease him for a few more minutes.  As he said he was cumming, I pulled away completely.  I was really concerned that he would cum everywhere.  I did not want him to cum as I am saving that for fun this weekend. 

He  able to hold back the orgasm.  One big white drop came out and about a minute later this larger amount came out.  It was so hot as it was thick and hung on his cock.  I had him recycle his mess as you all have suggested and we went to sleep. 

More tonight.  I am loving this.

4th Nightly Tease

I continued the teasing of his cock last night.  This time though I didn't let him out of the cage.  He thought about asking for release and stopped himself.  I was so happy with his control.  I teased him for about 10 minutes and stopped.  He so wanted to ask for more but controlled himself. 

I think his next orgasm will be a milking.  Hopefully, this can be done on Saturday.  Until then, he is getting teased with no relief. 

The new contract is posted over on his side of the blogs.  My intent is to move this from a chastity contract to a general control over him.  Please review it and share your thoughts or ideas for improvement.

Thanks.

Third Tease in a Row

Last night was the third night in the row where I teased my husband a lot.  I know he enjoys this attention and I enjoy giving it to him.  These three pictures show me taking him to the edge of orgasm.  I didn't go all the way to ruined tonight.  Getting him close to that was enough for me.  He squirmed and politely asked me to take him a little further but I said 'no'.  As if on queue, our child made noises in the other room and my attentions were redirected.

I remember the look in his face when I walked away.  I flashed him a smile and left.  I was back shortly after as he was uncaged and I did not want him playing by himself.  He is back in the cage today.  His attitude gets better every day.  I wonder if there is a connection?

Ruined Orgasm Monday

Last night, I finished the ruined orgasm started the night below.  It is difficult to see but the first picture  shows one droplet of cum.  Earlier in the play session, I got one push of cum that was just enough to leave a big drop on the head of the cock and a little line of semen that stopped at the ridge of the penis head.  At that spot, a second smaller droplet formed.  My husband asked if he should "recycle it" as many of you have said.  I told him that I didn't care but go ahead.  He then collected the drops on his finger and consumed it.  He said that it didn't taste bad at all and wasn't sure what all the fuss is about.  I agree.

At this point, I was done with him for the evening and took a few nice pictures before telling him to roll over and go to sleep.

This second picture shows how his balls totally contracted into his body.  He kept this erection for about 10 minutes following the end of the tease.

Girls, the nice thing is that after the tease, he was more loving and interested in me than before.  If I do this every night this week, he will be exactly where I want him for the weekend.


More pictures and teasing tonight.

Lots of News

Lots of things going on here today.  If you want to read the details, go to my husband's online diary blog HERE.  Quick version is that the emla creme came today, I'm waiting on a redraft of our contract to be more than just chastity and, he seems to be calmer about work. 

As for last night, well, he wrote that up well too.  Trouble getting our child to settled down just killed my desire.  I think he now needs to wait until the end of the week before I want any physical attention.  Until then, he will be locked up.

Added a Pingbox

I added this pingbox in the sidebar to make it easier for people to send me suggestions or ideas.  Thanks to my husband for figuring it out.

Saturday Night...sleep?

My child took so long to go to sleep Saturday that my husband was sound asleep when I got to bed.  I was watching a movie with her until about midnight, maybe a little later.  She was having trouble settling down but once asleep is out.  I wanted to do things with my husband and didn't want her interrupting.  By the time, she was out, he was too! 

I have a rule to myself that I don't wake him up when he sleeps as he is not a good sleeper.  If he wakes up when I come in the room, that is different.  I turned on the light and read for a while but he was out.  A little frustrated, I went to sleep. 

Hopefully tonight she goes to bed sooner and he goes to sleep later. 

Orgasm before Bed

Didn't get to take the pictures last night as our child came home early.  That was okay for me as I got a wonderful foot rub from my husband before that.  When it was time for bed, I let him touch me and finger me to two wonderful orgasms.  We were talking about how much I love to control him during the first.  I had let him out of the cage and stroked him as he served me.  For the second, which was much more intense, I visualized him cloned into three people.  One cock fucking me from the front with another doing the same thing from behind and a third in my mouth.  That powerful image took me over the top to a very strong second orgasm. 

With that, I told him to go to sleep and did the same.

Week is Over - Time to Take Pics

Like my husband said, the week really took our heads out of the Domme/sub thing and my control over him.  I hate how life gets in the way of the things you enjoy the most. We need to begin rebuilding that steam that we had going.  Our child isn't around tonight so we will see what we can do to get back there again.  I have lots of ideas thanks to friends on here. 

I think some pictures of my feet, his trapped cock and whatever else sounds hot would be a good start. 

Update on the Emla creme: That company says its in the mail.  Internet fraud?  Stay tuned.  I really want it for him.

Trying to Think of Ideas for the Contract Expansion

I posted how my husband offered to expand and extend my Contract where I own him for as long as I want.  For now, I think one more year is enough.  That makes it Valentine's Day 2013.  The harder question is how to expand it beyond the Chastity Contract.  What do I want?

It needs to involve more aspects of our lives but I can't turn him into a maid.  He works very long hours so that is not reasonable.  We have a child so staying naked or some other kinky bit isn't reasonable either. 

The latest Contract is HERE.  As you think of things, email me at khwife@gmail.com or post here.

Birthday Gift, Our Contract and Travel Plans

I had a very nice birthday party last night.  Good friends and food.  I know most of you are not interested in that so I will get to the time after everyone was gone.  It was so late that milking him and then doing something was not a in the cards.  I gave him an orgasm without touching his cock instead.  He write about the whole thing HERE.  I was a little disappointed the next morning that he wasn't firmer and stronger at fucking me but he had reasons and we will do things to make it better next time.

I was happy with the gifts he gave me.  One was a couples vacation whereever I want to go.  He did a good job on his post at explaining where I am thinking of going when we can.  Do you any ideas on where to go?  He was thinking someplace where we can explore this new relationship dynamic so I thought of San Francisco or Seattle. 

He also offered to make the contract longer and involve more.  I really like that and think another year is enough for now.  I also need to think of what else I want from him.  Like the trip, I would like ideas as I try to think of other things to move the contract into.

Birthday Weekend

I was so happy to have my husband locked up on his trip away from home.  It is nice to think that I have nothing to worry about.  He can't cheat on me and he can't masturbate.  Honestly, the control over him even when apart is very hot to me.

Tonight, I was able to celebrate my birthday with my closest girlfriends at a nice restaurant in town.  While I don't usually drink, I had a few glasses a wine with lots of great conversation and things to eat. 

The fun continues tomorrow night as my husband arranged for a party with a few other friends of ours.  I have told him that it is my plan to get him drunk, milk him through the ass and have my way with him. 

We were talking through the latest poll where having him pee himself won.  I'm not sure how we will do that but I will figure it out.  Having him wait another week for an orgasm is possible as we really need the Emla creme for him to be all he can be for me.  When we talked about him staying naked when around me, he agreed to do that if I want it.  I misunderstood and thought he said that he would do that at the party tomorrow night.  He quickly corrected me and said 'no way' in front of friends and business colleagues but offered to do it if we had friends of similar interests in the lifestyle if I wanted that.  That answer surprised me.  This might mean a whole different type of dinner party down the road.  We will see.  For now, we should have fun tomorrow.  More to follow.

Husband's First Trip Owned

My husband will be out of town the next two days on business.  He thought I'd let him out of this chastity cage for the trip.  Is he kidding?  This is why I got it.  While I trust him, this is why I locked him up.  No cheating or masturbating will occur now.  Given how horny he says he is, I will double check when he gets home.  I wasn't going to give him the plastic lock as that can be broken off so easily but he made a good point on the security clearance thing.  What is the worst that happens if they stop him?  He is embarrassed. 

I think he will be fine.
 

Sleepy Hubby

He chose sleep over sex last night.  Can you believe it?  He can't.  Poor thing was so tired that he couldn't wait while I got our child tucked away.  He is back locked up. 

Not sure when our next chance will be.  He just told me that he may need to be out of town for a night this week.  It would be his first flight in chastity.   No way I am letting him be out of town this horny without it being on. 

Perfecting the Little Things

Husband began his oral service duties as decided by me with the kind input of all of you.  The orgasms were nice slow ones so that I could enjoy them for a while.  I would have liked to use his cock but he is in no condition to enter me given how horny he is.  Only a touch and he is ready to cum.  Hopefully that Emla creme that we will get tomorrow will solve this problem.

I think I did the ruined orgasm better last night than last week.  Instead of releasing a lot only a tiny amount snuck out and only after a little extra coaxing.  You can read about it on his post which is right here.  He still needs to show me a proper milking without complaining.  Given how noisy he was, that won't happen until the house is empty except for us.  As it is Mother's Day, I don't know when the next chance is.

Well, more later.

Little O

Last night, I didn't let him give me oral sex as I had told him.  It was late.  Instead, I had him massage me down there before giving me a clitoral orgasm while I read a magazine.  No kissing or touching of him.  Just a nice little orgasm before I went to sleep. He slept in his chastity cage.  I've told him to post on his side his feelings of this.

Oral Service

Things are back to normal, if there is such a thing in a Femdom household.  Reading up on what we are doing, that is what we really are.  It is more than keeping him in chastity - it is me in control.  His libido and attention toward me are back and I am feeling frisky.  He asked me if he could begin the oral sex of me every day as the poll suggested to me.  I told him that I thought it was a good idea and we could start tonight.  He is still kept from being in me until I milk him properly.

I missed the delivery today of that Emla creme - a special skin desensitizer used for people getting piercings at tattoo shops.  Without that, he is too horny to enter me and not cum in seconds.  As such, he will need to wait until next week to test that with me.  

People love the feet pictures so I will try and do some with him in the cage this weekend.  

More tomorrow.

PS: I have asked him to write his thoughts and feelings on his side of the blog.  I expect a good post tonight.

Feet Tormenting him

Since we have been down for a few days, I thought you might like some new pictures. I took the cage off for these pictures but he is still without an real orgasm for a long time now. Hopefully, this weekend we can try to milk him correctly. Hopefully, he will be horny enough for that. This week threw off his libido but it seems to be coming back. What do you think?

Back Up and Running

We apologize for the delay. We had to shut down because of potential breach of my husband's computer by a work associate. As such, we shut it down for a few days and are renaming. The good thing about the rename is that it is actually a lot more accurate to where we have gone as a couple.

Today's Lover - Rene Caviolla

These are my lovers. The are Rene Caviollas. I have others that you will meet later. Below you will see me using them to step on his balls.


If you like these pictures, I will take more over time.

Contract Extended One Year

It was so nice of my husband to extend his contract to me through Valentine's Day 2012. He did this so that I'd milk his cock during the day today instead of waiting until tonight or tomorrow. I would assume that means that we will be keeping these blogs fresh through then too. I had him post the proposed contract extension so that I might get good ideas from my friends on here. I have gotten some great advice on here that I hope will relate to this.




Read his blog entry for his first milking. I expect that we will be doing more of these. His prostate got the relief it so desperately needed yet he remains nice and pliably horny. Once that Emla creme arrives, I can really have some fun with him. I like him in this state of attention toward me and if it means that I can't have him in me for a few days, then it must be this way.

Pictures of my feet with his cock and my favorite shoes will be done this weekend. I had a nice pedicure Friday and I feel ready to do it.