Delight in a Caged Cock

I wonder if other women out there feel the same as I do - I love having my husband in the cock cage.  I just get more interested in sex and sexual things knowing that he is locked up.  This morning I played with him a little before work and when he got home I did the same thing.  Hopefully, we can get some alone time before one of us falls asleep tonight as I want him to at least rub me to a bit of satisfaction.

The question as always when I get him in the cage is when to let him out for a bit of fun.  The tease is just so erotic knowing that each day he gets better and better.  He shows more attention, reacts more to my touch and is so much more agreeable. 

Husband's Relief

Melody and Paul Wedina (1988)

I gave him a little relief yesterday.  You can go to his side of the blog if you want the details.  I don't think an orgasm while half erect and caged and struggling to let the cum out is what he was hoping for but he got some relief which is what he wanted.  I had lots of fun plans for this weekend but now I have my monthly visitor.  That doesn't mean we still can't have fun - it will just need to adjust a little bit which is not what I wanted.  Such is life.  It will be nice to have a night alone with him though.

I Want More

You know, getting a little sex makes me want more.  Due to the holidays, that was one thing I wasn't getting either.  After Saturday, I want more but now I can't get it.  He is now working so he is away during the day.  Doing it alone is not the same.   As of tomorrow, our child is back at school and I want more.  We will see if he can come home for "lunch".   I think the thing we need to use is the strap-on but of him on me.  I think it is too soon to give him a second orgasm but the feeling of a cock is so mmm!  I know he would disagree with the too soon comment but that is why I am the one in charge.

Last night was interesting.  He had fixed the CB-6000 and put it back on.  He used a slightly smaller ring and struggled most of the night with the tighter size.  Finally around 4:30am, I got the key for him.  I find it amazing that just a little bit tighter caused him all sorts of problems and pain.   I've told him to write about it on his side of the blog.

That's it for now.  I know I owe you all some pictures.  We will do something soon.   As the strap on choice won, that is probably what will be done first.  Looking at the time to orgasm, I am sure that he is hoping that I don't listen to the poll.  We will see.

Locked for the holidays

Perfect blouse for the holidays

With everything healed, he is back in the cage.  Hopefully this will teach him to be more ready for me when I want sex out of him.  Overdoing the emla creme really made him useless in that way.  Now that I have my monthly visitor, he won't need it.  We have my older daughter coming on Wednesday through Christmas so he has some time to get horny and desperate again and be better at serving me when and how I want it.

With the holidays on us, it is amazing how the hours in the day just disappear.  Before we know it, it will be 2011.  Amazing.  It seemed like the 1990 not too long ago.

I got no ideas from any of you kinksters on holiday gifts.  Take a break from jerking off and send me a note on what a good gift might be.  Email is khwife@gmail.com.  Ciao for now.  Mas manana.

Night with the Girls

I will be going out tonight enjoying a night with the girls as one of them is having a birthday.  Drinks and sushi.   I had planned on being with my eldest daughter having her child but they are now waiting until Monday to induce.  Just found out a few hours ago.  While I'm doing that, my husband can help our child with a report for school.  You may remember that we had wanted to go to a BDSM Halloween party but on such short notice and the possibility that I might need to travel on a few hours notice, that isn't a possibility.

As for my husband, he will be traveling next week for a few days.  He has the cage on.  It is plastic so I doubt any problems with the planes.  If they do a body scan and see it, he will just need to explain things.  

My Tagged Property

Look at the nice clear picture from his iPhone.  You almost feel like you are there.  We will see what fate has in store for him tomorrow.  He has a busy day so I don't know if there will be time for me to distract him.  It might be best for him to wait until Thursday, Friday or possibly next week.

This goes to show you that being caged for three weeks without release doesn't make it difficult to be hygenic.  He cleans and grooms - it just takes a little more effort.

As for me, I am definitely feeling better today - not 100% but much closer.  My back remains stiff while the headaches that were giving me, well, headaches are gone.  The next thing I need to do is start exercising again.  With our child off and all the turmoil in our lives, I just didn't have the energy to do it.  Now I know I need to - for my health as well as to get back into shape.

More tomorrow...

What was that?

Yesterday we couldn't do the outdoor thing.  As that was the case, I took a nap to get rid of a bad headache.  Husband came in around lunchtime to wake me up.  It was then that he started to massage me.  As men will do, this eventually led to my inner thigh and my private area.  I told him, no touching my clit.  He kept slipping and touching it.  Eventually, I put him on his back and used his cock cage for friction.  I actually had it in me for a bit and had a nice but not too big orgasm.  I wanted more.  As even the cage is enough for rubbing against, I proceeded to use his bump to have a second more powerful climax.  I kept rubbing against him a little after that.  He seemed to be getting close to an orgasm so I asked him.  He said something was happening.  Shortly after that, he shot an orgasm through the slit in his cage.  And then a second and a third.  As he was pointed down, it went down literally to his knee and all over the bed.  What a mess.  I got off him and asked 'what was that?!'  He said that he had to pee and that was what it felt like.  The orgasm just snuck up on him but didn't feel like one as he says he felt no contractions.  Looking at the mess and volume, that seems hard for me to believe.

Now today, I have to wonder whether to toy with him outside.  He seems to have cleared his build-up big time.

Also, do you think he has a real orgasm or something else.  I have a hard time thinking that it is a milking but maybe it is.  Looking at the mess, it doesn't seem very ruined.  I would love to hear if you have had this happen before and what I might call this.

Outdoors?

I don't think I've mentioned this on here but since my husband already knows, I might as well share it here. I want to tie him up naked outside.  What I will do with him from there is speculation that will have to wait until later in the week as he is not knowing more than that until then.  I wanted to do it Tuesday but there are too many people that may stop by that day so it will need to be Wednesday.  I have no interest in doing something that will cause us problems in the neighborhood.  We have a snoopy old neighbor in the back that says he sunbathes and swims naked and needs his privacy but has looked over the wall between our houses.  Let's hope he doesn't that day.  He has to climb up and up to do it so hopefully if my man can keep it down, there will be no need for him to look over the wall.   That is the next day he has any chance at getting out of the cage.  Whether I do something with him or not is another thing entirely.  I like him in this state of attention toward me.  He gets way too slack after I meet his needs.   I told him also that we will be doing some pictures for the blogs as people seem to want that.  As always, feel free to ask for what you want to see.

Those of you who wanted more on different personal things about us, I haven't seen any specific requests for information.  A lot of page views but not a lot of questions on what you want me to tell you about me or us.  If you want to know most anything, post a question here or in the forums area.

Meeting Another FemDom Marriage

This Saturday, I am hoping to meet a local woman who keeps her husband in the same chastity cage that we use.  Her husband has been locked up for almost 3 months.  My husband should feel lucky that this is his longest locked away.  She also used to have a spending problem like me.  It will be nice to know a person who has gone through everything I have gone through and come out the other end.  She has been like this with her husband a very long time.   I like the idea of knowing someone who I can talk to about things and learn from.

The only thing that stands between us meeting is making sure someone can watch our child for the few hours we need to meet them for lunch.  As we have only chatted online, there is always the chance that she might not make it too.  While it is a little "scary" to break through the internet and meet someone, this seems like the right person to meet.  The good thing is that both husbands will be there so there is no chance at anything bad happening.  We will also meet in a very public place so we are both being careful about things.

Family is Away

Just a quick update. I am now alone in the house with the animals. As per instructions, I am wearing nothing but my CB-6000 keyholder lock number 462009. This will be an odd period of time being locked up, potentially watched by her online eyes and kept naked.

Wife got to her destination safely. It was an uneventful flight. I will post updates from her as I get them.

His Rules for Behavior while I am Away

These are the rules that he will be following for the 17 days that I am away:

1) To remain in the CB-6000 chastity cage the entire time

2) To remain naked in the house at all times

3) To wear minimum clothing when outside

4) Always shower before bed

5) Always sleep without covers

6) Exercise as much as possible

7) Work hard at finding a job

8) Maintain a healthy diet with no alcohol

9) Email me each day with what he did that day

10) Work on the house and yard when possible

11) Day to day things like paying bills, cleaning house, etc.

12) Keep body cleanly shaven of hair

13) Wear a buttplug for at least an hour a day

14) Write something erotic on the blog every day or two

15) Keep video stream open to selected surrogates while I am away

I will have him post for me in my absence.  You are always welcomed to email me at khwife@gmail.com.  

Getting Ready for Time Away

As I have shared with you, I will be out of town for nearly three weeks beginning Monday.  My husband will be left alone for that time.  I need to set his rules of behavior while I am away.  So you know, the same constraints are placed on me for finances.  My trip using tickets purchased months ago should save money as I am staying with my mother.

My number one thing is having him in the chastity cage while I am not there.  That is not negotiable.  A few of you have suggested that he stay naked while away.  I like that idea for a few reasons.  First, it is the summer and very hot here.  That means that the air conditioning doesn't need to be on as much or at as low a temperature.  Where we live, it needs to be on almost constantly in the summer.  With him without clothes, we will spend less on electricity.  This is also good as many of you tell me that subs should be naked as much as possible.  With a child in the house, that is not possible.  As you see from the poll, I think only shorts when working on the house is good too.  The fewer clothes he wears, the less to clean.  The less to clean, the less electricity used.  This always reinforces his sub status.  I think exercise is good too as he can get his weight back to where he is happy with himself.

What else?  Obviously, he needs to do the day-to-day things like work on the house, get the taxes done, interview for work - that is the most important but that will be what it will be.  What else can you think of that should be added to his time alone?  This coming weekend, I will post our Rules of Behavior while we are apart.  Some may be what he eats or drinks.  Any ideas are appreciated.

Saturday Orgasm for him

Yesterday, I gave my husband a hand job.  No teasing, just straight to climax.  My goal was to reset his body and mind to what we had before the work assholes started messing with him.   You could tell that he had not orgasmed in nearly two weeks.  After he came, it just kept oozing out in smaller spasms for a long time.

After that, I told him that he needs to put the cage back on.  He stated that he is still getting his libido back and would never touch himself.  Still, I want to get him back into the swing of what we had going on before.  Also, I will be leaving him alone for a few weeks this summer.  It will be close to three weeks.  There is no way I will leave him here alone without the cage.  By having him caged, he can focus on fixing up the house and finding a job without the thought of orgasm while I don't need to be wondering what he is up to.

Next thing to do is get my libido back up.  All of this drama has been a big distraction.  Hopefully, he will find a new situation soon.  With the school year starting in just two months, I would like things solved before the school year starts.

Husband's First Trip Owned

My husband will be out of town the next two days on business.  He thought I'd let him out of this chastity cage for the trip.  Is he kidding?  This is why I got it.  While I trust him, this is why I locked him up.  No cheating or masturbating will occur now.  Given how horny he says he is, I will double check when he gets home.  I wasn't going to give him the plastic lock as that can be broken off so easily but he made a good point on the security clearance thing.  What is the worst that happens if they stop him?  He is embarrassed. 

I think he will be fine.
 

Ideas

I'm setting this up as a link to the blog that my husband is keeping as it relates to his chastity contract to me that he signed for our anniversary in February. I have had him in a CB-6000 since then. Feel free to ask me questions or give me ideas - this is new to me so I am looking for your thoughts and ideas.

Thank you.