Argument FOR Male Chastity

His moodiness went away today.  You'd swear that he has the monthly visitor and not me. 

I have had a couple of people ask, why do women enjoy men in chastity?  I can't speak for others but as for me, I like the control of him.  I like knowing that he cannot get any sexual satisfaction without me.  Is it the power?  The control?  Both?  Probably.  I also like that other women really can't hope to get anywhere with my man.  What is he going to do?  Show them the cage and the ring on his finger.  Actually, I know of many "happily" married men and women who conveniently lose the ring and cheat.  Even my most religious friends do that.  While I trust my husband, I don't trust the outside world.  With a divorce rate of 50% for America and closer to 75% in California, why not take a little extra precaution?  As I have said before, the ring on your finger should really be a ring around his cock.  Face it, men are weak.  Many women are the ones who decide if there will be a rendezvous or not.  The cock cage answers all of that and enforces marriage vows with a chastity vow.  As an extra benefit the man is more attentive as well.  Where is the down side?  Trust but verify.  Love, honor and obey - not love, honor and betray.

Would love to hear your thoughts.  I know some feel it is barbaric and others want this to be based on trust but this really causes us and others like us to be more connected.  Where is the downside?  I don't see it.  Do you?

Men - share this with your woman. 

Lots of News

Lots of things going on here today.  If you want to read the details, go to my husband's online diary blog HERE.  Quick version is that the emla creme came today, I'm waiting on a redraft of our contract to be more than just chastity and, he seems to be calmer about work. 

As for last night, well, he wrote that up well too.  Trouble getting our child to settled down just killed my desire.  I think he now needs to wait until the end of the week before I want any physical attention.  Until then, he will be locked up.

Birthday Gift, Our Contract and Travel Plans

I had a very nice birthday party last night.  Good friends and food.  I know most of you are not interested in that so I will get to the time after everyone was gone.  It was so late that milking him and then doing something was not a in the cards.  I gave him an orgasm without touching his cock instead.  He write about the whole thing HERE.  I was a little disappointed the next morning that he wasn't firmer and stronger at fucking me but he had reasons and we will do things to make it better next time.

I was happy with the gifts he gave me.  One was a couples vacation whereever I want to go.  He did a good job on his post at explaining where I am thinking of going when we can.  Do you any ideas on where to go?  He was thinking someplace where we can explore this new relationship dynamic so I thought of San Francisco or Seattle. 

He also offered to make the contract longer and involve more.  I really like that and think another year is enough for now.  I also need to think of what else I want from him.  Like the trip, I would like ideas as I try to think of other things to move the contract into.

Contract Extended One Year

It was so nice of my husband to extend his contract to me through Valentine's Day 2012. He did this so that I'd milk his cock during the day today instead of waiting until tonight or tomorrow. I would assume that means that we will be keeping these blogs fresh through then too. I had him post the proposed contract extension so that I might get good ideas from my friends on here. I have gotten some great advice on here that I hope will relate to this.




Read his blog entry for his first milking. I expect that we will be doing more of these. His prostate got the relief it so desperately needed yet he remains nice and pliably horny. Once that Emla creme arrives, I can really have some fun with him. I like him in this state of attention toward me and if it means that I can't have him in me for a few days, then it must be this way.

Pictures of my feet with his cock and my favorite shoes will be done this weekend. I had a nice pedicure Friday and I feel ready to do it.