Argument FOR Male Chastity

His moodiness went away today.  You'd swear that he has the monthly visitor and not me. 

I have had a couple of people ask, why do women enjoy men in chastity?  I can't speak for others but as for me, I like the control of him.  I like knowing that he cannot get any sexual satisfaction without me.  Is it the power?  The control?  Both?  Probably.  I also like that other women really can't hope to get anywhere with my man.  What is he going to do?  Show them the cage and the ring on his finger.  Actually, I know of many "happily" married men and women who conveniently lose the ring and cheat.  Even my most religious friends do that.  While I trust my husband, I don't trust the outside world.  With a divorce rate of 50% for America and closer to 75% in California, why not take a little extra precaution?  As I have said before, the ring on your finger should really be a ring around his cock.  Face it, men are weak.  Many women are the ones who decide if there will be a rendezvous or not.  The cock cage answers all of that and enforces marriage vows with a chastity vow.  As an extra benefit the man is more attentive as well.  Where is the down side?  Trust but verify.  Love, honor and obey - not love, honor and betray.

Would love to hear your thoughts.  I know some feel it is barbaric and others want this to be based on trust but this really causes us and others like us to be more connected.  Where is the downside?  I don't see it.  Do you?

Men - share this with your woman. 

Locked for the holidays

Perfect blouse for the holidays

With everything healed, he is back in the cage.  Hopefully this will teach him to be more ready for me when I want sex out of him.  Overdoing the emla creme really made him useless in that way.  Now that I have my monthly visitor, he won't need it.  We have my older daughter coming on Wednesday through Christmas so he has some time to get horny and desperate again and be better at serving me when and how I want it.

With the holidays on us, it is amazing how the hours in the day just disappear.  Before we know it, it will be 2011.  Amazing.  It seemed like the 1990 not too long ago.

I got no ideas from any of you kinksters on holiday gifts.  Take a break from jerking off and send me a note on what a good gift might be.  Email is khwife@gmail.com.  Ciao for now.  Mas manana.

He is still waiting

My husband is going to find out when he reads this that he might need to wait another week for a chance to orgasm again.  See, he has to drive somewhere tomorrow morning for a meeting.  If he gets home fast enough, he will have alone time with me before our child comes home.  If not, then Tuesday I am busy all day and our child has a half day - no chance there. Wednesday, same thing plus getting ready for the holiday.  That means we wouldn't be alone again until the Monday after the holidays. 

So, hopefully he reads this before he leaves and then gets home quickly.  If not...

I'm resetting the orgasm clock

After thinking about things and talking to another couple in a similar relationship, I am convinced that my husband should have known he was going to orgasm.  As such, the outdoor play is delayed until next Wednesday or Thursday.  The time in the cage continues as well.  He was going to get the holiday weekend out of the cage but now it stays on.  At minimum, he should have better control over himself.  I don't want to do this outdoor fantasy of mine unless he is desperate to orgasm.  I want his hips bucking before we even start.  In any event, our child is out of school early today and we are having people over in the late afternoon.  There is too much for him to do in getting ready for all of this.  We won't be alone all weekend and Tuesday is when the people come to cut the lawn.

I'm very disappointed that he delayed my plans but such is life.  Hopefully, he will learn to pay attention next time.