His moodiness went away today. You'd swear that he has the monthly visitor and not me.
I have had a couple of people ask, why do women enjoy men in chastity? I can't speak for others but as for me, I like the control of him. I like knowing that he cannot get any sexual satisfaction without me. Is it the power? The control? Both? Probably. I also like that other women really can't hope to get anywhere with my man. What is he going to do? Show them the cage and the ring on his finger. Actually, I know of many "happily" married men and women who conveniently lose the ring and cheat. Even my most religious friends do that. While I trust my husband, I don't trust the outside world. With a divorce rate of 50% for America and closer to 75% in California, why not take a little extra precaution? As I have said before, the ring on your finger should really be a ring around his cock. Face it, men are weak. Many women are the ones who decide if there will be a rendezvous or not. The cock cage answers all of that and enforces marriage vows with a chastity vow. As an extra benefit the man is more attentive as well. Where is the down side? Trust but verify. Love, honor and obey - not love, honor and betray.
Would love to hear your thoughts. I know some feel it is barbaric and others want this to be based on trust but this really causes us and others like us to be more connected. Where is the downside? I don't see it. Do you?
Men - share this with your woman.
10 comments:
Well, to be perfectly honest the chastity cage does little to prevent cheating. It can be removed, the lock cut off, an extra key made, pulled off and put back, key picked, etc. A relationship has to be built on trust and not enforcement in my opinion. BUT the cage does show a level of sexual interest and desire between partners that is unique and that in itself shows a relationship that will most likely not have cheating. To me wearing the cage does not prevent me from having the ability to cheat but prevents me from having the desire to cheat. Having a hot girl that is into kink like that...come on..what guy would take a chance and lose that?
tony
If I ever cut the lock off of my cage my wife would give me a whipping I will never forget.
dan
I think you have an interesting perspective, but I don;t share much of it. I do not consider myself weak, and I don't buy into such categorical statements about gender "all men are..."). I consider myself to have integrity and have no difficulty remaining faithful to my partner.
In my case, I wear the device because my partner enjoys the control, the constant reminder of her position in our relationship that it provides, and knowing that it's somewhat maddening to me to not have access. It began as my kink (I asked her to use it) but it became 100% under her control and it is constant when we are apart (and sometimes when we are together).
Who knows, there may come a time when I think of what she is doing with the device as somewhat unfair, but that's not my perspective right now. I think she's my dream come true.
Serving B, I think we are closer in opinions than you think. Maybe I say it too strong.
keyholder wife:
Perhaps so. I know that the only rendezvous my partner is preventing me from having is a rendezvous with my penis. :) I'm sure she believes that I would never even masturbate without permission, but she doesn't even like me stroking it outside of her presence. The device ensures compliance.
Living in Thailand my wife is very concerned about the 'opportunities' presented to men every day. She expects me to be obedient and loyal and to always be thinking of her pleasure and needs. Chastity gives her that extra comfort, and she feels very powerful with the key on her necklace, which she wears every day, at work and in the evening.
After my Wife/Mistress L and i have read hundreds of reports of men being more disobedient and aggresive after an orgasm we decided i would be locked and do our own test. Between that and that L did not want me to be masturbating without her consent i have been in a Cb 3000 and then a 6000. We both agree i am more docile and behave in a different manner when my orgasms are controled to about once a month
I've been in chastity for many years now. Although it was never about cheating, it was about not orgasming. We tested the waters and both my wife and I agreed that I was a better husband,lover,even a better father. I love the person I've become and we believe the chastity is the main reason for the change. She holds the key at all times. When we make love I use my tongue and I'm not ashamed to wear a strapon. After all my erect penis size is just under 4 inches and since I rearly get out of the chastity I only last about 30 seconds. Most of my orgasms come from anal stimulation when my wife wears her strapon. That type of "o" is ten times more powerful and she gets off on it as well. We are perfect for each other and I'm content with just a few orgasms a year as long as she is happy and satified. Being her sub sissy bitch will take a life time to perfect but its a life worth living. Your very happy, Little sissy.
Before I asked my Wife to marry me I gave her a CB-3000 as a gag gift for Xmass. I promised her that I would wear it whenever she wanted me to. I had no idea they actually worked. I gave it to her because her last live in boyfriend and husband before him both left her for the other women they doing.
Things started off slowly but gradually more and more she became very demanding about me wearing it. After a year she had me wearing it full time and had lengthened my releases to about once a month. That was in 2003 and she has kept me locked ever since!
I've adjusted well and she only unlocks me for a doctor visit once a year or if she wants sex.
She knows it's every Keyholder's right to be able to have sex with other men, but I don't think she has, at least not yet.
My wife has had me in chastity for over 12 years now. It started the day I proposed to her. When I got on my knees and proposed and placed the ring on her finger she had me pull down my pants and she placed a ring around my scrotum and attached a cage and a lock. We did discuss this ahead of time because her first marriage her husband was abusive, an alcoholic and he cheated on her.
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