Wednesday, March 30, 2011
The question as always when I get him in the cage is when to let him out for a bit of fun. The tease is just so erotic knowing that each day he gets better and better. He shows more attention, reacts more to my touch and is so much more agreeable.
Monday, March 28, 2011
An online friend that blogs under Femdom Fiancee was having a worse problem with her sub - he was telling her that because of his job, he couldn't wear it during the daytime. Then she caught him masturbating which is a big violation of their contract. Anyhow, he is locked up now as well.
By the way, these pictures are from the wordpress blog, naked men happy women. Very hot blog.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
I gave him the week off from the cage but it is 100% going back on Monday morning. I don't like him out there without it on.
I'm going to try and get back to writing up some of the things that I have been reading. There is a lot of interesting information out there to share with you. Maybe later today.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
This should be a fun week - we have a few events to go to this week related to fashion and runways. I'll see if there are any pictures worth sharing. I know I owe you naughty ones but that will happen when it happens.
Oh, remember that asshole boss my husband had many months ago? Not only did he lose his job and over a million dollars in stock because the company is worth nothing but he is having to sell his house, move out of town and take his kids out of private school. Pretty amazing for someone who was making over $400,000 a year for a long time. Talk about wasting a good thing. I feel bad for his kids but not him. He brought pain, anguish and suffering to an awful lot of people. Maybe this is one of the few times where karma kicked in. It seems like the bad people and the wealthy always have things work out for them while the rest of us scratch around. Some fairness is nice to see.
Saturday, March 19, 2011
So let's go back to last Saturday and our night alone. First off, we went with friends to see another friend perform on stage. That went until 10pm. Then we went out to a very dinner. I would get into everything but all of the people we were with are pretty famous so I don't think it is a good thing to talk in specifics. Anyhow, we finally got back to the room around 1am. We were both exhausted and literally passed out.
The next morning, I started teasing his cock. I would take him to the edge and stop. I would take him closer and stop again. I think on the third time, he tensed but didn't say he was cumming - but he did. When I told him what happened, he said it wasn't possible as he clenched and didn't feel an orgasm. When I showed him the mess all over my hand and his body, he was surprised. I'm not sure if that was sincere or not.
Men, tell me, can you orgasm and not feel it? Could you be fighting it so much that you don't feel the actual spilling of your seed?
As I was having a heavy visit from my monthly visitor, that was okay with me. We got ready and spent some time out and about before meeting our friends who had kept our daughter over night. We had a nice late breakfast, walked around on an absolutely beautiful day and then hit the road to return home.
Over the course of the week, there were a lot of distractions that were not very sexual. The people at his old job were all fired - even the one whose family owned a good chunk of the business. Can you imagine being so bad that you get kicked out of your own company? I was told that the company is going to fail at some point and the only way to satisfy the creditors was to get rid of the management. This is good for my husband as his departure last year came with whispers that he did something wrong or was incompetent. Given that his new employer is very strong and will take business from the old company, the whisperers are realizing that what they were told were lies.
In general, this awful economy seems to be getting the better of some of the bad people. Sadly, many good people are getting hurt first as the ones in power try to keep their positions for as long as possible. It's the same way in government but that isn't for this blog.
I have been teasing him to the edge quite a bit on Friday and today. He seems very horny. I am too. I really haven't gotten much satisfaction lately and need it. Hopefully, we will get good chances this week. As our child has a friend over this weekend, it has been tough to do anything even at night. We might have time alone tomorrow but that is to be seen.
As for the pictures I owe you here, that early orgasm last Sunday meant no pictures. I'm thinking either tomorrow or Tuesday will be my next chance for that. One way or the other, I will post pictures this week.
What else? I'm having him do the dishes more. Massage me when we watch television or go out to eat. I've let him out of the cage more but that means that I need to check and get him hard to make sure he hasn't masturbated. So far, he seems okay although I am putting him back in tomorrow.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
This is probably when I will take some of those pictures I have been meaning to. A nice shot of his cock and my feet seems like fun. If you all can think of anything else you want, please tell me.
In general, we have been at a bit of a lull lately - my apologies as it doesn't make for the best posts. He has been working hard at his job while I have been working to get my diet going. I'll post updates on Sunday with hopefully those pics I've been bad at getting for a while.
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
|Melody and Paul Wedina (1988)|
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
He says that he is coming home for lunch today (husband, not cat). Hopefully we can do something then. We should be without child Saturday night so at least a few fun days are coming. Whether he does or not is another question. In general, I find that my interest in sex goes down the longer I go without and goes up the more I get. I know he has been trying to get my interest up but the diet had me feeling off. I've dropped off the diet for a week and will be restarting soon enough.
Sunday, March 6, 2011
|Art by Robert Mapplethorpe|
During this period, he will need to begin working on building lean muscle. This means some mild aerobics and weight training. The trick is to do it with lower weights but until muscle fatigue occurs. Lots of situps and crunches. He will be getting measured tonight - biceps, waist, thighs, chest, etc. I will have him set-up a side page on his blog where those who are interested can monitor his progress. Ideally, his chest should be 10" more than the waist. By adding the muscle, his body fat level will go down. I'm not sure if the weight drops but his waist size should tighten. The last phase will also be for three weeks. After that, he should be all set to return to a normal diet although one where most of the sugars are limited. This is part of many longeivity diets - processed sugars are just awful for us. It means more fiber, fruit and vegetables along with lean protein.
Sometime this week, I hope to get him alone at the house to take pictures with the feet and who knows what. Hopefully, it will be a return to more of the sexier posts. As for me, I cut my diet cycle down to 30 days - I was struggling with the lower calories. I believe that I am going to need to do a number of cycles to get to where I hope to have him by mid-May.
He remains in the cage as there has really been no chance or need to have him out.
|Art by Lilith|
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Friday, March 4, 2011
I think he has lost about as much weight as I want. He needs to start working on building up the muscles now. I will have him take a picture and post it either tonight or tomorrow so you can see what I mean. He still have a little on his tummy but I don't want him getting all saggy. He needs to start getting the muscles bigger so that won't happen.
So on the sex front, not a lot. Sorry as I know that is what most of you are interested in. Maybe this weekend. We will have to see.