Question to the Readers

As I am trying to rekindle my sex drive, what do you think I should do next?  All of this drama at home has killed my desires.  He seems to be snapping back.  I touch him and he is squirming.  I think some of my desire be be tied to getting back to exercising.  Another part is akin to the exercise.  If you miss one day - no big deal.  Two days - it gets tougher.  A week - what is exercise? This may be some of what I am experiencing.  Another part is clearly the stresses of life.

He is finally getting back to exercise today.  The last six months, he has been unable to breathe let alone exercise.  I think it is good for his body and his psyche to begin again.  Now I need to listen to my own medicine.

Feel free to post a note here, send me something when I am online in the pingbox to the right of this post or to my email.  I have it on many nights.  I know a number of you have been or are going through what I am and I would love your thoughts, suggestions and ideas.

Besos.

Saturday Orgasm for him

Yesterday, I gave my husband a hand job.  No teasing, just straight to climax.  My goal was to reset his body and mind to what we had before the work assholes started messing with him.   You could tell that he had not orgasmed in nearly two weeks.  After he came, it just kept oozing out in smaller spasms for a long time.

After that, I told him that he needs to put the cage back on.  He stated that he is still getting his libido back and would never touch himself.  Still, I want to get him back into the swing of what we had going on before.  Also, I will be leaving him alone for a few weeks this summer.  It will be close to three weeks.  There is no way I will leave him here alone without the cage.  By having him caged, he can focus on fixing up the house and finding a job without the thought of orgasm while I don't need to be wondering what he is up to.

Next thing to do is get my libido back up.  All of this drama has been a big distraction.  Hopefully, he will find a new situation soon.  With the school year starting in just two months, I would like things solved before the school year starts.

Husband is calming down

As his post showed, he is thankfully out of the awful job working for selfish people.  This will reduce the stress on him and as such me too.

We are alone tonight - he has been remaking the office so he can work there.  Shortly, I will be going to bed.  With the house free of our child tonight, maybe we can get back on track.  I am very tired so possibly the morning.

We are both going to try and restart the blogs.  Hopefully, we will have more fun things to post over the next few days.

Giving Him Some Room

If you follow this blog or my husbands, you know he is going through problems at work.  I think what upsets him most is that they double-crossed him on his work cutting him out of not only a good amount of money but also a job.  He compares this in many ways to Ayn Rand's "Atlas Shrugged".  While I haven't read it, the greed of people who do half the work of him is very discouraging.  I think men compare self worth to their jobs and this big surprise really shook him.  I've tried to distract him by staying in the mold that we have created and discussed on here but his mind is way too preoccupied.  As such, I think it is best to support him and give him some breathing room.  I not happy as this has been a lot of fun for both of us but I don't think he will stay in this headspace for too long.  Once he regains his bearings and has confidence that he will not be unemployed for long, I think he will snap back quickly.  Until then, I will practice support and patience waiting for him to find the light at the end of the tunnel.

I know this isn't the type of post that you all like but better ones are coming.  Hopefully this proves that this blog is real. 

Sunday and this week

Sorry for not updated recently.  Husband has been under the weather and child has been around so not a lot to update.  I have a little from Sunday but I will have my husband write that up.  I'll do a better update probably Friday.