First of the Year

I'm sure more than a few of you are disappointed that I let my husband have an orgasm in the way men and women often do.  While it didn't surprise me, his endurance was pretty low.  I told him all along to hold off so he seemed to not have the more fulfilling of orgasms although I know he enjoyed the release. 

I still plan on using the strap on and the foot one.  I'm not going to discuss specifics - my husband's blog has enough of that for those who want to know.  I did do a bit of control with him as we did things though - no kisses, massages, etc.  That just seemed to make him even more desperate to do things. 

I had hoped to do more over the holiday break but life got in the way.  Given all of the hard work my husband has done today organizing the garage and storage area, I don't think his attentions will slip because I gave him a little attention to start the New Year.

Here is a question to you subs - if you get very little usage for month, is there anyway for you to last like someone who is getting more attention?  I'd be curious if anyone has developed that much self control. 

Emla Creme before Sex

With getting ready for the holidays and selling a bunch of stuff on eBay, I've been really busy this week.  Sorry to not have posted as much.

Had some play time with my husband on Thursday.  He coated his cock with emla creme for a few hours while I was getting a 90 minute massage down the street.  When I came back, I was ready to put him to good use.  After giving me a few orgasms by hand and machine, it was time to put him to work.  The problem was that he put so much on that it had zero feeling which meant it was hard to keep it erect.  I couldn't find the cock rings so this made him tough to use.  He was able to keep it up for a missionary position fucking of me.  That felt great and brought me to another orgasm.

The think that I didn't like was that all of the thrashing and squirming that I usually get out of him didn't happen as he couldn't feel anything.  I even put the vibrator on its strongest setting and he was numb to it.  The idea of a little less sensitivity is good but even with a cock ring, this isn't as fun for me.  With a cock ring though, he would really be a meat puppet and could go all night long so I guess it has its uses.

I was a bit to strong with him that day and the next the underside of his cock had a big tear near the head.  In giving him extra time out of the cock cage, he is not as horny as when I leave it on him.  While I know he hasn't taken matters into his own hands, his desire level seems to be lower when I don't lock him up.  He thinks it is more related to work related matters.  As I mentioned before, he accepted a job the other day but is still working on two other projects that want to hire him.  I won't bore you all with this but it all distracts him a lot.  None pay the cash we want but each could be great long term if the jobs work out as expected.

I will have more to chat about later - we are making cookies for a bake sale today.

Friday night

Well, we didn't have as long a fun as I wanted to as my husband didn't get back from a business meeting until 10pm.  He had to drive 2 1/2 hours away to make a presentation to a Board of Directors after the close of business.  Hopefully, he and his business partners land the job as it would pay them all like highly priced lawyers and give him the time to get the money raised to start his own company.

With that as the backdrop, I took him to the brink of orgasm for a while and then had him get a break and service me.  I then restarted on him taking him to a ruined orgasm where one drop of cum sneaked out of him about 30 seconds after I stopped touching him.  From there, I jumped on top of him and rode him to a very fulfilling climax for both of us.  I had thought the ruined orgasm would take the edge off and let him be hard in me longer.  Alas, no, he lasted but not as long I would have wanted ideally.  It was still good, don't get me wrong.  With that, we went to sleep.  There was no time for anything the next morning as our child needed to get home from the sleepover.

Today has been a pretty lazy day for me.  Other than a little cooking and cleaning, jumped in the pool.

I'm still thinking of Halloween outfits for the party.  One suggestion was that if I am a witch, make him up to be a black cat.  I had thought of a broom but I'm not sure how you dress someone up as the broom you rode in on.  My husband thought he could be a mummy wrapped in bed sheet strips.  It was mentioned that an outfit like that might be difficult to keep on.  In thinking about that, that could be a good thing at a kinky Halloween party.

Anyhow, more over the next few days.

Without child tonight

Here is something that just kicked my energy into a higher gear - we will be alone for the evening.  I've told my husband to drink a lot of coffee today and he will be kept up late.  I have many thoughts and ideas in my head but I'm not going to say them here as he reads all of this.  He will find out tonight and you all will find out tomorrow.

It will be wicked fun.

Weekend over Early

Well, our weekend alone was cut short by about 24 hours.  The two days was just enough to get me wanting a lot more.  Rather than write up the specifics here, I told my husband to blog about it on his side of the blogs.   I will let him stay out of the cage the next few days as it was beginning to separate and needs to be sent to the manufacturer for a replacement.  It seems to have cut the underside of his penis as well as another spot.  If he is out of my sight, I have two backups I can put on him.  

I really have to say that I like controlling him.  While this may not be for all women, it is right for me.