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Monday, August 30, 2010

My Feelings and Emotions in FemDom

Serving B brought up a good point.  What are my feelings and emotions about all of this?  In the beginning, I thought of this as a game that brought us closer together.  I still do but it has become more than that.  It is a way that we are connected more deeply.  He has given his ability to orgasm to me while I have accepted that and the increased responsibilities that it brings.  He has handed over something very important to a man and expects me to use that responsibly.  There is an emotional rawness between us that is happening.  That seems to be solving some of my issues of insecurity that showed up in my spending and other feelings of potential abandonment.  Now I know that he we are completely connected and moreso everyday.

With everything going on related to his work, this is a nice distraction.  It is more than that too.  It gives us something not related to the daily pressures.  We have physical closeness from this that might not happen with the distractions.  This gets us to be together even more.  It has made me feel more wanted by him.  Men don't realize but when they masturbate, their interest in sex goes down which also affects the amount of attention they give their women.  With kids, work and daily pressures, it is easy to not put in the energy of sexuality with each other.

There is also the chance to explore fantasies with each other more.  I am thinking about things far more than I would have without it.  That is good for both of us.  I think the idea of people paying attention to what we do turns me on even more.  The combination of controlling him, the voyeurism of the blog and the community of supporters all impact how I feel.  Having met those who can help me deal with this has made a big difference too.  In meeting that couple, I realized that this is a great way to keep a relationship alive and very interesting.  It is like a book - we have started a different journey together.  I'm not sure what that ending is but it is a fun journey that beats the hum drum that might be the case without it.

As I think of more, I will share it in new posts.

3 comments:

Weave said...

I love reading your thoughts here. All so true.
And yes, my masturbating does impact my relationship with my Wife. I'm trying to work on that. But very true.
Thank you.

Maddy said...

Hello
What a lovely image. It has given me an idea for tonight.
It is good to hear that you are enjoying the relationship. Like you I thought that my husband might just be play-acting but over the years he has proved that this is what he truly wants and that he is happy to live with the consequences. We have controls on his orgasms which do not include a device but they are effective and I know that he follows my instructions. I also enforce discipline with cane strokes on his, still, cute bottom and in other ways.
Recently I started Robert on Tantric Sex and, although he thought it was silly to begin with, he has worked hard to make it happen after seeing the pleasure I get fom a session. This is a terrific way to spend a wet Sunday afternoon,of which we have had many recently.
Best wishes
maddy

BOB said...

Great photo! A strong but submissive man submitting to a woman and putting her pleasure first.I love the fact that its a picture of a dominant woman.But that there is also tenderness in the photo as well