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Well, my diet is starting in a serious way in 48 hours.  Hubby has been doing his and the results are obvious already.  He is also horny again after only a few days and has asked twice if I'd let him out for a little loose time this weekend.  Honestly, he is pushing it too much.  I want him to be focused on losing the weight for now and not thinking about that thing between his legs.  I think as he loses weight, his libido is going up.  It probably doesn't help that I tease him a little all the time.

I was looking at my feet today and remembered that I owe you new pictures.  They are 100% back to sexy.   My feet on his caged cock is an easy picture.  I will probably do that Monday if he stops by for lunch.  As for letting him cum on my toes and cleaning it up by tongue bath, I think we should wait on that - don't you?  I'm happy to hear the arguments both sides on here.  I'm willing to reconsider if there is a good reason to.

Oh, we have an anniversary in about three weeks.  I think he should wait for that and then, if he makes me feel special, maybe I would let him out.  Part of me thinks that I should make him wait until he loses all the weight.  Isn't that what the strap-ons are for?

Here is a rare video from a favorite group - Crazy P aka Crazy Penis.

The Wife Was in Control Today

Today I had a nice play date with my husband.  I had him strip and I fiddled with him for about an hour and a half.  He was on edge for most of that time.  I really tormented his nipples, cock and balls.  I'm sure that his nipples are sore and balls full.  Even better, I promised him more tomorrow.  After that, he will have to wait for a bit as I don't think we will be alone until the following week.  I know I have said it before but I get off a lot on teasing him and watching him squirm.  He even rubbed me to an orgasm through my stretch pants in only a minute or so.  That was a first with us.  Watching him react to my touches and knowing how much he wanted to orgasm gets to me big time.  Many times he teetered on the brink but was able to hold it back. 

His kissing was very good today.  I can feel the desire in him with each kiss.  While kissing him, I either pinched his nipples very hard to see how he would react or stroked his cock.  It became clear after a while when I took him into pain or to the brink of orgasm.  Watching and feeling him struggle is such a sexy rush.  

I'm feeling generous so no cage for him until the day after Thanksgiving.  We will be around each other and I can tell in only a few seconds if he has done anything given his current state of arousal. 

PS: I so love this, can any of you think of things he can add to this as a Christmas gift? 

Husband home

Haven't been feeling well the last two days.  I'm not sure if it is the flu or just stomach problems but I have been resting.  My stomach feels and looks like a gas balloon.  Is there a doctor on the blog?  Actually, I will see a doctor on Monday if I still feel like this.

As for my husband, I saw that he wrote up what I could do with him today.  That was fun to do with him.  Watching him try to talk while I twist his nipples is fun.  He has such a hard time staying focused.  You think that he could handle two things at once.

His behavior has definitely improved with the orgasm denial.  I enjoyed getting his motor running but leaving the car in the garage.  This is why men can't orgasm too often - they lose that loving feeling that we like.  His kisses are far more passionate.

Except when we want it, do men need to be let out of their cages?

I'm posting this here for those of you who do not read my husband's blog.  His post proves that men do not need to be let out of chastity cages regularly or be allowed to orgasm unless we want it.  I would like to hear from he whiny men who disagree as I think it is just that - whining.  Here is what he wrote:


"Yesterday, after I peed, I waited for a few seconds and then decided to give it a little push to clear the extra fullness.   I then pushed out a long stream of a thicker white fluid.  I pushed again and another stream came out.  A few hours later, I did this again and a much smaller amount came out.   I seem to have "cleared" the amount of semen or ejaculate that one would normally have from an orgasm.  After I was done, the fullness on the prostate was gone.  There was no pleasure to this - it seemed to be a physical need to relieve my body of this build-up.  It was similar to the effects of a milking without any physical pleasure or pain. 

I've read up on this and it seems to be a natural way that the body deals with extra seminal fluid.  When you pee, it puts pressure on the prostate with the end result in some cases being that it essentially forces the prostate to clear.

All of this seems to remove two fallacies from a lot of posts on male chastity and chastity devices: 1) Men do not need to orgasm every so often - the body will resolve this one way or the other on its own; 2) The chastity device does not need to come off for cleaning - at least the CB-x000 series doesn't need it.  I can clean just fine with it on.  Liquid soap and make-up removal pads with a cotton swap do a very good job at cleaning everything."


Somebody explain to me why we need to let them out except for when we want to?  What is the real need?

Wife Back Tuesday night

She will be back here Tuesday night. I go to get her later today from a relatives about five hours away. Hopefully, she will post a better update here Wednesday. I also hope that our child has a sleepover straight away so that we can have some good time together. This is the longest continuous period that I have been locked away and one of the longest periods without an orgasm ever. I know a number of you will say that 2 weeks is nothing and that this is good training for me while others will be amazed that a guy can allow himself to be locked up like this when alone for two weeks. Bottom line to this is that it brings my wife and I closer and distracts from daily challenges such as me looking for a new job or her dealing with spending problems. It gets us out of the rut of everyday life and challenges. The question to me is where this will all lead as the current challenges go away as we know that they will.

Last Chance?

I told my husband last night that today is probably his last chance to orgasm for a long time.  The question is whether that can happen in the short time we have together this morning.  After that, he goes in the cage for pretty much the rest of the month.  We also need to work on his Rules while I am  away.  I think we will finalize that Saturday.  I'll make sure he posts an update later today.

Third Tease in a Row

Last night was the third night in the row where I teased my husband a lot.  I know he enjoys this attention and I enjoy giving it to him.  These three pictures show me taking him to the edge of orgasm.  I didn't go all the way to ruined tonight.  Getting him close to that was enough for me.  He squirmed and politely asked me to take him a little further but I said 'no'.  As if on queue, our child made noises in the other room and my attentions were redirected.

I remember the look in his face when I walked away.  I flashed him a smile and left.  I was back shortly after as he was uncaged and I did not want him playing by himself.  He is back in the cage today.  His attitude gets better every day.  I wonder if there is a connection?

Orgasm before Bed

Didn't get to take the pictures last night as our child came home early.  That was okay for me as I got a wonderful foot rub from my husband before that.  When it was time for bed, I let him touch me and finger me to two wonderful orgasms.  We were talking about how much I love to control him during the first.  I had let him out of the cage and stroked him as he served me.  For the second, which was much more intense, I visualized him cloned into three people.  One cock fucking me from the front with another doing the same thing from behind and a third in my mouth.  That powerful image took me over the top to a very strong second orgasm. 

With that, I told him to go to sleep and did the same.

Psychological Chastity

Last night, I was playing with my husband, getting him completely worked up. I fiddled and sucked on his nipples and massages the part of his cock not trapped by the cage. He was going wild and I had to remind him more than once not to make any noise. I probably did this for 30 minutes. As I stopped, his cock was as hard as it can possibly get while being in the cage. It looked painfully hard to be honest but he wasn't complaining. I had been thinking about fucking him but because of female things, I wasn't in the mood. That doesn't mean that I wasn't horny - I was. I wasn't tired either. At this point, I reminded him that his next orgasm would be the milking. He agreed and told me that he was looking forward to it. I then gave him the key to let himself out.

He removed the cage, cleaned his cock and came back to bed. He asked if he could pleasure me. I said no. I asked him if he could be trusted not to masturbate when he woke up in the morning. He said of course, he would not violate my decision that his next orgasm be through milking. I then proceeded to tease him to the edge for the better part of an hour. I kept getting him closer and closer to orgasm as I played with him. Normally, his breathing and behavior tips off an orgasm. He also knows that he must ask to orgasm. He did this twice or maybe three times during the teasing session. Each time, I would stop stimulating his cock and give him a break playing with other parts. On one of those times, when I took my hands away from him, he continued to buck his hips fucking the air for a solid minute. I'm certain I did if not a ruined orgasm something very close to that as his cock had a good amount of precum on it and it became harder to get him to the edge the next few times. With this, I was done. He was so loving and thankful for the teasing.

Someone suggested it here and I tried it - at least while I can supervise - Psychological Chastity. Let's see if I have that power over him now. In this advanced state of horniness that he is now in, if I don't see his cock jump the second I say something or do something, I can tell if he has broken our agreement. I think he won't but we will find out today. I still like the idea of having his cock caged as the psychological part of him not being able to even touch his cock is erotic to me but I want to see if my control is growing. I think it is.