Monday, January 10, 2011
Right now, I am focused on getting our child to not come into our bedroom just now. I have no idea how long that will take but that will help quite a bit. He may find he has a few sleepy days once we solve this problem.
As for my anniversary present, I want an iPad but money is probably not there for it as he keeps repeating. So what shall we do? Looking it up in the guides, the tenth year used to be tin or aluminum. He'd better not do that - unless of course it is the iPad - that is aluminum, yes? The modern version is diamonds. That is nice too but not likely given the difficulty of last year.
On other things, I have all of these guys online who want me to Domme them or bring them into my home or have a fling that my husband doesn't know about. What to say about all of this? First, if you have read my blog, a fling is not my thing. Where is the pleasure for me in Domming a bunch of married guys who won't tell their wife's what they want? That flies in the face of what I say everyday. For the ladies reading this who have uncaged husband's, this is a great reminder that men with go to many lengths to live out their fantasies but not expose themself to you for fear of ridicule. Here is how to solve that. Play with their cock. Get them good and excited. Then start asking them for their deep, dark fantasies. Probe deep. Don't be satisfied with an answer that they think you will find okay. Ask questions. If they hold back, slow the play. If they give good answers, keep playing. You might just get the truth.
Anyhow for all of these cyberguys, some are very interesting to talk to who I learn a lot from - others are a challenge and wear me out. When you approach someone with as much online content as me - read it. Don't waste our time with what you want. Think about who you are approaching and try to cater to them - not you.